From a girl's perspective, here are the 5 important things a girl wants in a relationship.
1. A friend.
They need someone who they can click with. Someone they can be comfortable with when all the romantic elements are gone.
2. A listener
Most times when a girl tells you her problem, she's not really interested in your advice. She just wants someone who she can transfer all the negative and positive energy from her day's activities to. A guy who will quietly listen to her and hug her telling her that everything will be fine. She needs someone whose mood changes at any sign of her unhappiness. A girl needs a HUMAN DIARY.
3. A guy with a life.
In as much as some girls need you to call them at intervals, a girl needs a break away from the relationship aspect of her life at least for an hour day(it varies) . In as much as she wants you to know what she's up to, she doesn't need an idle monitoring spirit with trust issues. Please allow her to do the monitoring, let her monitor your life. Don't struggle for that aspect with her. Too many cooks spoil the broth.
4. A guy who isn't stingy with compliments.
You need to notice any little beautiful change, if she bought a new pair of earring please make her know you noticed them by complimenting her. Tell her how beautiful she is as often as possible.
5. Someone to motivate and not pressure her.
This is self explanatory. If you need her to lose weight, tell her in a subtle manner. Don't body shame her. You can pretend like you want to keep fit and ask her to join you, there are other ways, please find out yourself. If she loves her body the way it is, please do not push.
These are the general things I can think of just to make you guys realize that we aren't complicated as we are painted to be (smiles).
Just know that when a girl loves you, she loves you because of some things you consistently did. Once earn her love, do not change or relax. Try to continually build your relationship and her love for you will blossom.
Please Watch out for my next article: HOW TO MOVE FROM THE FRIEND ZONE TO THE FOREVER ZONE and don't forget to follow my blog to get updates on new articles.
1. A friend.
They need someone who they can click with. Someone they can be comfortable with when all the romantic elements are gone.
2. A listener
Most times when a girl tells you her problem, she's not really interested in your advice. She just wants someone who she can transfer all the negative and positive energy from her day's activities to. A guy who will quietly listen to her and hug her telling her that everything will be fine. She needs someone whose mood changes at any sign of her unhappiness. A girl needs a HUMAN DIARY.
3. A guy with a life.
In as much as some girls need you to call them at intervals, a girl needs a break away from the relationship aspect of her life at least for an hour day(it varies) . In as much as she wants you to know what she's up to, she doesn't need an idle monitoring spirit with trust issues. Please allow her to do the monitoring, let her monitor your life. Don't struggle for that aspect with her. Too many cooks spoil the broth.
4. A guy who isn't stingy with compliments.
You need to notice any little beautiful change, if she bought a new pair of earring please make her know you noticed them by complimenting her. Tell her how beautiful she is as often as possible.
5. Someone to motivate and not pressure her.
This is self explanatory. If you need her to lose weight, tell her in a subtle manner. Don't body shame her. You can pretend like you want to keep fit and ask her to join you, there are other ways, please find out yourself. If she loves her body the way it is, please do not push.
These are the general things I can think of just to make you guys realize that we aren't complicated as we are painted to be (smiles).
Just know that when a girl loves you, she loves you because of some things you consistently did. Once earn her love, do not change or relax. Try to continually build your relationship and her love for you will blossom.
Please Watch out for my next article: HOW TO MOVE FROM THE FRIEND ZONE TO THE FOREVER ZONE and don't forget to follow my blog to get updates on new articles.
I may score very low in #4 plan to work on it....
ReplyDeleteNow what are the 5 things a guy wants?
Expect an article on that soon. Thanks for the feedback
ReplyDeletemehn! i been way back on the whole thing.. i hope i get better though. at some point i feel like we growing apart, next we feel like caressing each other again. can u do something on that. thank you
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